A few years ago a mother brought her 5-year-old, supposedly ADHD son to see me during their holidays interstate. Without his usual Ritalin, which was required for him to attend school, he was often impossible to manage, yet his mother knew that inside was a gentle little boy who occasionally appeared. I asked why she had come to me.
Concerned at the side affects of the Ritalin on her child, a friend had suggested she pay me a visit, to see if any light could be shed on his erratic behaviour. Her friend had had personal experience with our savvy strategies on her own children’s health, with great success.
Meanwhile her son had roared through the home, knocked over a lamp and proceeded to terrorise my dog until we took him out on the balcony, where he sat crying. Even the most casual observer would agree that this little boy’s behaviour was more than just being naughty. He was acting as if something was irritating him, almost behaving as though someone was constantly sticking him with thumb tacks, or as if he was actually wearing the proverbial ‘hair shirt’.
Apologising profusely, his mother said that he just didn’t like wearing clothes. She told me that he was always most calm after his bath but that they only used plain water. However his tantrums started up again at bedtime, and he usually woke up during the night with a mild bumpy rash over his body. So that led me to suspect that there was something about his clothing and bedding that was irritating him. I suggested she remove his clothes.
Sure enough, within 30 seconds of doing that he began to calm down. He actually relaxed and curled up into his mother’s lap and fell asleep. When he woke 15 minutes later, he remained calm and played quietly for the next 40 minutes while I chatted with his mother about making sensible choices, so that they could have a healthier home.
I discussed the things I had learned over the years, about the wide variety of triggers I had come across. These children often have excessive sensitivity, and this constant inner battle they experience can use up essential nutrients, which then causes other symptoms.
The disastrous effects of what seem like insurmountable issues, syndromes and the like, can be as simple as dealing with three simple steps that any family cam take. 1-2-3. After all, as we say ‘Wellness, It’s Not That Hard!‘.
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