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How Do You React When The Heat’s Turned Up?

In the Savvy Team we talk a lot about ‘who we are being’ as we go about life and here’s a pretty deep conversation that I wanted to share with you today.

Enjoy and let me know what you think.

You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

Many years a young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired  of fighting and struggling… it seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, “Tell me what you see.”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the  carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, “What does it mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The  ground coffee beans were unique, however.  After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?  Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

So I ask you, think of this question yourself. Ask yourself: “Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?”

“Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?  Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial,  have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff  spirit and hardened heart?”

“Or am I like the coffee bean? Do I have a positive effect on the worlkd around me, and others in it, when the heat turns up? Can I stand up, keep going, and encourage others to do the same under pressure?”

The bean actually changes the hot  water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.  If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle  adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

I want to thank Brian Klemmer for passing on that old parable in his book “Eating The Elephant One Bite At A Time”

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2 thoughts to “How Do You React When The Heat’s Turned Up?”

  1. Thanks Corey and Linda for Module 11 last night. It was very thought provoking (and still is today). Module 11 reinforced my personal philosophy of “being the person God created me to be”. In this journey of life every single person has problems. In the past, I allowed my problems to determine my actions (I lived a life of blame). Your personal development programs, the books you’ve recommended and the people with whom I now associate, have all contributed to my looking at life in a completely different way. I want to continue growing to be a “coffee bean, having a positive effect on the world and everyone with whom I’m in contact, even when the water boils – as the heat turns up. I will be strong, keep going, and encourage others to be the same when they too are under pressure”.

    1. Thanks for your wonderful comments Joan – we appreciate it! We are really pleased at how well the module was received and thank you for your participation.

      Keep up the great work at becoming the best “Suosaari Blend” of coffee you can!

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